Support

I've been kinda lazy these weekend. Checking my email account for the first time in these few day, I've got a pretty encouraging mail from a friend. I mean it's always amazing to know that someone is there for you, someone is there supporting you. No matter he/she is a bro, friend or special someone, it just means a lot.

Corny pick up lines?

This evening, I was kinda bored after knowing that my weekend plan was totally blown off by the typhoon, so I youtubed a bit and accidentally found a video on the topic of guys’ pick up lines. It was funny. I mean jeez, what kind of guy would still use these kinda corny pick up lines so as to talk to a girl.

Terrible pick up line,
“Well I’m here. Tell me your second wish now.”
“Apart from being beautiful, what are you doing here?”
“Have you got something in your eye? Nah, just a sparkle.”
"Do you have a map? I just keep on getting lost in your eyes.
"If I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put U and I together."

Frankly, I don’t think guy really need a pick up line to catch girls’ attention (Of course, it would be nice if u do have one which works every time). Why can’t guys just be straight forward? Sweet, nice, funny guys are always charming. Wrong pick up line basically makes u sound like a moron or a dick.

Girls would like to hear some romantic pick up lines but no offense, just use pick lines wisely depends on the girls and the situations. Corny pick up lines don’t work all the time.

Love/ Habit

We fall in love, we fall out of love and we fall all over again. Sometimes we fall so hard that we can't even control ourselves or sometimes we become numb and take everything for granted. What if we find out that 3 magical words were just spoken out of habit one day and the whole thing of Love is just a lie?

When we were little, we learned to say "I love u". We said it to our family, friends or whatsoever. Getting older, we usually just end up saying it too much or too chicken to spit it out. How can it be possible that we are so afraid of saying these words as a grownup if you really mean it? Anyway we just do. On the other head, we just use it too often and no one would really take it seriously. How can we tell the difference between love and love out of habit?

Chinese? HKers? C'mon. They are not the same!

I was asked why I hated China so much since I'm obviously a Chinese myself. Maybe because of my relative issues or maybe it's because of the communist things. What can I say? Blame UK for giving Hong Kongers too much freedom and allowing us to think out of this "China is the BEST country ever" box. I'm glad that I wasn't born and raised as a patriot. I mean jeez I didn't even know how to sing the Chinese national anthem till 1997. I still can't remember the whole song anyway.

Living in Hong Kong for this 21 year, I see how things have changed. I see how people moving because Hong Kong was given back to China. I see how people still wanna leave Hong Kong because of the "one country two systems" bullshit. I see how the economy turned into hell. Mainland Government is just trying to manipulate the HK Government. Well, I suck at politic. I think I'm just getting the feeling that it's kinda the right thing for people to stand up against Donald Tsang. It's obvious that all he does is kissing the Chinese Government's ass. Come on! So much money was donated to the Mainland every single year and the Government suddenly became broke when it comes to saving the HKers?

I don't hate China like some of the Chinese hates Japanese. For me, those are what we call histories. Why let ourselves haunted by the past? Fine, you could get the Japanese to apologize for what they have done, so what? People are dead! Nothing could bring them back. Time goes by, it's the moment for a change. We study History to learn about the past and stop making the same mistake all over again, not re-ensure which side we should take. Taiwan is a part of China or not. I don't fucking care. Why bothers fighting over? Is there any prize for initiating World War III?

Until now, I'm still refering myself as Hong Konger not Chinese. Don't judge.

Marriage vs Life

"I wanna get married when I'm 20 something and have kids before 30, my goal is to be a housewife." it seems to become the thought of the day. My girl friends are obviously going through some pretty intense boy-hunts these days. If you told me you have this thought like 3 years ago, I'd have called you pathetic. Getting older, I guess I kinda get the reason for that even I'm not agree with the whole getting-married-is-my-life-goal thing. After all, life's hard. Still if it's really necessary to put a deadline on getting married? Does marriage really can't co-exist with other dreams?

For me, there are 2 types of girls who would die for marriage. The very first one is being-married-and-be-a-desperate-housewife type. This kinda girl tend to be busy looking for the one who is willing to take care of her for the rest of her life so that she could stay at home and take care of her kids like every single day. They are doing that mainly because they are sick of their boring jobs and wanna find a shelter. Well, of cause the second type would be the happily-married type. She is crazy in love and wanna tell everyone that she has found the one.

Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that people shouldn't get married. I just don't agree with some of reasons for people to get married. All I'm trying to say is why we have to do it in a hurry and make it sounds like marriage is everything. I still find it sad for some who wanna give up your own life to be a housewife. Come on! It's 2009! Women can be independent. Getting marriage is about having the world to witness your commitment not I-could-finally-quit-my-job-and-stay-at-home-forever.

It's not that I don't believe in marriage because I do. Everyone believe in marriage at some point and wanna broadcast that "we are so madly in love". I believe in marriage. I believe in happy ending. It just needs time to decide where I wanna spend mine.

This Is Us

Madness in your life
Accidentally bonded two
Loving each day we spent
Aching for the sadness you had
Carving marks in my heart
Hating that we are apart
Indeed, the feeling is absolute

Hoping for that special someday
Struggling for the truth like a fool
Unconditional love is all I could give



I dont know, I've written this months ago. Just feel like posting this now.

Man's Ego and Girly Gal

Take a look around, girly, bitchy, manly and blah blah blah, it’s not hard to notice that there are so many different kinds of girls but is there a clear boundary between them? For many of my friends, I believe that I’m that kind of girl with man’s ego trapped inside. I don’t know if it’s good or bad but nothing is absolute?

I don't need every single one around to know how I feel. Sometimes it's just better to put work over word. I can’t understand why some girls have to be chicken about doing better than men? There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Men have their egos, we have ours.

To my surprise, I could pick up a girly fight too. After all it doesn’t take much to bring out one’s girly side. Even the manliest girls could also be a girly gal. It isn’t always black and white. You would never know when we are standing in grey.