Fine or Not

Have you ever wondered who would be there taking care of you when you are sick? I did after throwing up all night. I wasn’t surprised that there was actually no one there. That’s the worst thing to be single, rite?Who do you want the most at that moment? I don’t know, I was kinda thinking of A, no matter how hard I have been trying to tell myself that I’m so over him. Surprisingly, I am still a bit confused about his category in my life. For most of you, bf/gf and friends would most likely be your very first choice. Even you haven’t shown, you were actually so glad that there were someone there asking if you were ok. Maybe we just need to ensure the love around still exists, or maybe illness brings out our insecurity. Let think it this way, would you wanna be there for the one you care about in this sorta situation? Everyone wants to of cuz. Trust me, I almost flew to Paris when I knew he was shot. I guess I should have.

Self control or Not

When you are bored in class, what would you do? Well, texting, chatting, PSP are most likely to be happened. Today, I was pretty bored in the Math class, I’ve overheard some guys conversation. It was about their “experience”. Do you guys have nothing to show off other than having sex with a prostitute?
Well, it’s not my first time hearing or getting involved in guys’ talk which was about sex. I’m actually ok with this sorta conversation but is it necessary to share it in class loudly? They can’t give themselves a little bit self control. Guys talk should be in a club, rooms or online. Even if u wanna let the gurls know that u ar such an expert in geisha houses, u say it directly, not giggling like a gossip girl. Be a MAN!
Somehow, guys just can’t get rid of the animal nature. I’ m not saying that it’s not ok to have sex. No offence. I just wanna wish them luck with the HIV test.

Losing Game or Not

“Don’t find a man u luv but a man who luvs u”, isn’t it familiar to you? Everyone must have heard that especially for gurls. It seems to be a new responsibility for mothers to warn her own daughters way before we took our first dance class. How many of u could reali do that?
No matter how hard we try to keep that in mind, we would just make the same mistake again and again. “Sex likes a man” is rarely happened to a gurl. Even Samantha Jones gotta admit that she was in love with Smith. Being with someone u doesn’t like is such a torture. With a guy treating u like a princess, it just doesn’t seem rite.
Maybe gurls are just attracted to BADBOYS or maybe we were reali designed to lose in this game. We just can’t fight our feelings.

Mars, Venus or Not

For guys, gurls with huge boobs and hips are most likely to be called hottie. For gurls, topless Chad Micheal with six packs is sexy no doubt, but we are looking for more than physical. Even the way guys talk might say to be sexy, so how do u define sexy? Is it the way we think lead us to the different planets?
Well, for me, musicians and sport players are hot but am I gonna fall for this sorta sexy? Guys always said they dont understand women. Think again, women ain't that hard to be understood. Women are just complicated animals who look for simple comforts. When we said we wanted to talk, we are looking for a listener not an answer. Frankly, It is such a turn-off for u guys to keep providing answers which we don't need. All u need to do is to be there and say that everything's gonna be alrite.
Men n Women, we even got different ways to define sexy. How could we be possibly living on the same planet. Maybe it's our difference make us attracted to each other.

Cursed or Not

Bridesmaid/ Groomsman?
"Thrice a bridesmaid, never a bride". Still remember there was such curse about being a bridesmaid. It is also said that it could be broken by being a bridesmaid seven times. Knowing there is such curse, have u ever wondered how many times you r gonna be somebody's bridesmaid or groomsman? Let put it this way, how many close fds u got would want to have u as their bridesmaid or groomsman to share the best moment of their life? For me, more than 3 I guess but Im not so sure if it's gonna reach 7. I admit that I got a lot of fds. When it comes to fds you could reali talk to, not much. Isn't it true for everyone? How are u gonna choose if u are asked to wear ur 3th bridesmaid dress? I'd take the risk. It doesn't mean I dont wanna be a bride. Trust me, every gurl thought about their dream weddings when they were little. Just I believe that my guy would be there for me no matter we are married or not but being my fds' bridesmaid indicate that how much u mean to them. It would be such a shame to miss out the way they walk down the aisle.

Ready or Not

Having a friend who is married to a girl at my age, I was kinda surprised. I'm not saying that he should marry me or something, I was surprised that how they could come up with this kinda huge decision. When they married, he was like 20 and the girl was 18 and pregnant. U might think it's dramatic. Believe it or not it is true. I was so proud of him but marriage is such a great commitment. No doubt, the proposal part is sweet. When you couldn't even be able to take care of urself, how can you promise that you could take care of ur other half and kid and live happily ever after? Maybe that's y I said maybe someday n ruined everything or maybe I just not sure wt we were. I'm not the one who think marriage is just the last legal form of slavery. I do belileve in marriage but When could we stand up and shout out loud that we ar ready? Never I guess!

Chicken or Not

It's funny how we start a relationship. Before the relationship, there are always bubbles. You are not sure about how u feel about that guy/ gurl and how he/she feels about u. U might end up getting the wrong msg or too chicken to say wt u were supposed to say. Sadly, most of us are the chicken type, especially for guys. I remember there were guys asking me wt to do after finding themselves got a crush on somebody. The very first thing came to my mind was "Are u serious?". I mean GUYS, if u fall for somebody, u tell her, not ask ur fds! Sometimes, guys are just more chicken than the gurls. Even gurls gave them hints, they just aren't dare to take the first move.Are we kinda going back the the age of blind-dating? In this case, no one would have to worry about who's making the first step.

Bitchy or Not

Studying in Mainland China for almost 2 yrs, the one and only one thing I've learned is how to be bitchy. Everyone here says HK gurls are bitchy. Think again! Wt makes us so bitchy? It's u ppl!
I'm pretty gd at pissing my roommate off now. I dont reali wanna be like that she just kept testing my patient every single day. I'm just wondering, living with a guy would probably be better than living with her.
Trust me, I was not that bitchy. Some guys even called me "Gurl next door type" while they were writing stuff on my notebk at the end of the skool yr. At least guys dont think Im bitchy. Maybe gurls do. I dont know. Anyway, spending time with my bloody roommate, rude ppl on the bus and blah blah blah, I realized that there ar no space for us to be sweet and nice here in China.
We, gurls ar not meant to be bitchy, sometimes I'd rather call it self defense. When you have no guys standing up for urself, U just gotta learn how to be bitchy so that no one would dare to take advantages on u.

True Romance or Not

Living in a city like Hong Kong, U might find that ppl around are always busy with something. When we take a closer look to every single one, u might find it hard to find any trace of romantic stuff. Is the city lack of true romance?
Y dont you ask urself wt the most romantic things you have ever done with ur bf. It might be a candle night dinner, movie nite or something like that on the weekend. Even ppl offer u his seat could say to be romantic but someone writing u a luv poem is icky! wt's wrong with everyone? That's just the way to express one's feeling.
Maybe we are just too used to the oridinary life we are living. True romance became sorta old-fashioned for many of us. Do you think it's time for us to picking up some of those true romance to light up our life?

Long Distance or Not

What's the most interesting things of being in a relationship? Some say joy, some say the feeling n some might say the physical contacts. I'd say the unknown. Maybe that's y ppl found long distance so interesting. I dont know. Long distance just makes me feel like I have it but I dont.
Long distance is great. I mean beauty grows with distance rite? Even it is always kool to look forward to the unexpected, there ar reali too much unknown in relationship like this. Unknown could be scary sometimes. U just feel like you could never know what's in his/her mind. It is hard when you realized that there was no one be there for u when u needed him/her the most.
What we were? I'm not sure. I dont know if we could say to be a relationship. It was sweet but I just didn't think I could even make it to top 5 in his heart no matter what he said. Bloody French. It was tough to admit that he luv his job more than me.